What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. A lot of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is really love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Loaded with attention and existence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch filled with attention and presence. Both the provider and the receiver are entirely present. Do not think about yesterday or tomorrow. Do not browse or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or getting the massage. An extremely conscious touch from the heart. Receive also really knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the concern. Everything takes place in the minute, in full awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the situation. Dreaming away or falling asleep is likewise not meant (still, when that's exactly what you require, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't really about an established outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be various. It is not the technique or the preferred series of massaging that is crucial, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is required.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take a really surprising course. Everything fits into a bigger whole. A tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in happiness. A "stopped working" massage can be the initial step in a terrific development.
How to get the best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We knew it for a long period of time, of course, but because the #MeToo revelations, some things have turned up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver always must be guaranteed. Loving attunement constantly comes first.
Set clear limits ahead of time
It is a misconception that a tantric massage should always be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is also entirely ok (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural delighted state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and consciousness. In a split second you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but generally, that is a process in time. Tantra understands different strategies to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose other than self-realization: restoring the natural (thrilled) state of being.
Typically leading to a fantastic physical, mental well-being
Tantra helps you to end up being more unwinded, more dynamic, more energetic, more loving therefore far more. Really, you "learn" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Since this is precisely what occurs frequently: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is fully allowed! A tantra massage is generally great, sometimes scrumptious. We, therefore, welcome you to fully delight in receiving ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Of course, all massages have certain practices and strategies in typical. There is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (targeted at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (targeted at recovery).
Well since you are really very energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but treatment is an occupation apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the post on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide great conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* this company Make certain your massage is need free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Do not only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Offer feedback (satisfaction sounds?).
* Build in integration (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried about what they themselves find enjoyable, enjoyable, desirable. A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "requirements", stay away from your own concerns and above all ... do not try to force anything. Nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is required! Again, don't attempt to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Perhaps you are dissatisfied when somebody falls asleep. You might not be awaiting an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Respect borders, set clear boundaries ahead of time. Our masseuses are mostly very open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, of course. Understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the whole body. Being aroused is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can turn up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing minutes. Avoid limitations from being crossed again.
* Step by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. pleasure noises) and provide integration minutes (simply doing nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest do not rush to the weather ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy build and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (however you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner and even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing effect. It is possible that clogs, psychological injuries concern the surface. There might be a psychological release, consisting of physical reactions such as shaking, crying, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the same as recovery, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover exactly what it is like to like yourself.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a great deal of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you might become not only cheerful however even euphoric. An overjoyed state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the better you will feel.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Full of attention and existence.
* The whole body participates.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard form, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (shared) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Typically resulting in a wonderful physical, psychological well-being (of both).